Life with God is a matter of the heart, and it is between you and Him, and there can be no other in between. Anything else will be self glorification, insincerity and duplicity. And these are the very things that need to be removed from our lives, because they act as leaven in our lives.
Lent is a time to take one step back, reassess ourselves, decide what we want in and with Jesus, and come before Him with that. Take this opportunity to sit with the Lord Jesus and speak to Him your heart.